[8.14](backport #4638) Use otel version 0.97.0

[mergify]

Otel versions >0.97.0 have a bug where they expose metrics on :8888 even for validate subcommands causing our tests to fail.

related to this issue here: open-telemetry/opentelemetry-collector#10031
cause by pull open-telemetry/opentelemetry-collector#9257

Closes: #4617

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #4638 done by Mergify.

[mergify]

Cherry-pick of a3900f0 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/8.14/pr-4638
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Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   NOTICE.txt
	both modified:   go.mod
	both modified:   go.sum
	both modified:   internal/pkg/otel/README.md
	both modified:   internal/pkg/otel/run.go

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