cachefiles: notify user daemon with anon_fd when looking up cookie

Send the anonymous fd to user daemon when looking up cookie, no matter
whether the cache file exist there or not. With the given anonymous fd,
user daemon can fetch and then write data into cache file in advance,
even when cache miss has not happended yet.

Also add one advisory flag (FSCACHE_ADV_WANT_CACHE_SIZE) suggesting that
cache file size shall be retrieved at runtime. This helps the scenario
where one cache file can contain multiple netfs files for the purpose of
deduplication, e.g. In this case, netfs itself has no idea the cache
file size, whilst user daemon needs to offer the hint on the cache file
size.

Signed-off-by: Jeffle Xu <jefflexu@linux.alibaba.com>