use HIP stream-ordered allocator

[BenWibking]

Summary

When available, this uses the HIP stream-ordered memory allocator hipMallocAsync/hipFreeAsync to make device arena allocations. This should improve performance (performance testing TBD).

AMReX tests pass on MI210 with ROCm 6.0.

Closes #3979.

Additional background

ROCm 5.2.0 added these APIs: https://rocm.docs.amd.com/en/latest/about/changelog.html#id665
HIP documentation: https://rocm.docs.amd.com/projects/HIP/en/latest/doxygen/html/group___stream_o.html

The CUDA stream-ordered allocator is already used by AMReX (with CUDA >= 11.2).

Checklist

The proposed changes:

• fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
• add new capabilities to AMReX
• changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
• are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX users
• include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

[BenWibking]

Hmm, these tests fail here and also fail on the latest development commit:

92% tests passed, 3 tests failed out of 38

Total Test time (real) = 657.96 sec

The following tests FAILED:
         24 - Particles_ParallelContext_3d (Failed)
         30 - Particles_Redistribute_3d (Failed)
         31 - Particles_RedistributeSOA_3d (Failed)
Errors while running CTest

See #3981.