add option to use browsers native selects for month and year dropdown

[ray007]

Proposed changes

New option for date picker to use browser-default selects for month and year dropdown.
This helps me avoid the issue in #5723

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue).
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality).
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change).

Checklist:

• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.
• All new and existing tests passed.

[soryy708]

@ray007 There are merge conflicts.

[ray007]

@soryy708 And if the maintainers show interest in this I'll fix them.

[soryy708]

@ray007 Regardless of maintainer interest or activity, if the conflict is fixed then a fork can merge it.