OpenSSL: Update to version 1.1.1j

This has an important fix:

* Fixed the X509_issuer_and_serial_hash() function. It attempts to
  create a unique hash value based on the issuer and serial number data
  contained within an X509 certificate. However it was failing to
  correctly handle any errors that may occur while parsing the issuer
  field (which might occur if the issuer field is maliciously
  constructed). This may subsequently result in a NULL pointer deref and
  a crash leading to a potential denial of service attack.
  ([CVE-2021-23841])

There are more security fixes, but they do not affect us.