Update go-hdb to v1.4.1

[aenkya]

Description

Closes #3211

Readiness checklist

• I added/updated unit tests (and they pass).
• I added/updated integration/compatibility tests (and they pass).
• I added/updated comments and checked rendering.
• I made spot refactorings.
• I updated user documentation.
• I ran task all, and it passed.
• I ensured that PR title is good enough for the changelog.
• (for maintainers only) I set Reviewers (@FerretDB/core), Milestone (Next), Labels, Project and project's Sprint fields.
• I marked all done items in this checklist.

[CLAassistant]

All committers have signed the CLA.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #3213 (253663a) into main (57d7148) will increase coverage by 0.20%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #3213      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   75.15%   75.36%   +0.20%     
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  Files         396      396              
  Lines       22210    22210              
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+ Hits        16692    16738      +46     
+ Misses       4540     4488      -52     
- Partials      978      984       +6     

see 18 files with indirect coverage changes

Flag	Coverage Δ
hana	?
integration	71.76% <ø> (+0.25%)	⬆️
mongodb	5.30% <ø> (ø)
pg	65.21% <ø> (ø)
shard-1	56.41% <ø> (-0.04%)	⬇️
shard-2	55.41% <ø> (+1.13%)	⬆️
shard-3	55.11% <ø> (-0.71%)	⬇️
sqlite	34.49% <ø> (-2.17%)	⬇️
unit	24.64% <ø> (-0.07%)	⬇️

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[AlekSi]

Thank you!