chore: use a lance fork without the duckdb submodule (#2742)

lance uses duckdb as a submodule, and it's a pretty massive repo, `555.9
MB` on a fresh clone. It currently takes absolutely forever to build
glaredb the first time _(or subsequent times if you nuke your cargo
cache)_.

`git clone https://github.com/duckdb/duckdb.git` alone takes almost 4
minutes locally.

this just forks lance and removes the submodule to avoid the problem
alltogether.

crates/datasources/Cargo.toml

@@ -69,7 +69,7 @@ tiberius = { version = "0.12.2", default-features = false, features = [
   "rustls",
   "chrono",
 ] }
-lance = { git = "https://github.com/lancedb/lance", rev = "310d79eccf93f3c6a48c162c575918cdba13faec" }
+lance = { git = "https://github.com/GlareDB/lance", rev = "de6df70d9c5d95a4818b8799c23e3d1ad649bc1d" }
 bson = "2.9.0"
 scylla = { version = "0.12.0" }
 glob = "0.3.1"

crates/sqlbuiltins/Cargo.toml

@@ -36,4 +36,4 @@ reqwest.workspace = true
 # Important to keep this in sync with the datafusion arrow-cast version
 arrow-cast = { version = "50.0.0" }
 
-lance-linalg = { git = "https://github.com/lancedb/lance", rev = "310d79eccf93f3c6a48c162c575918cdba13faec" }
+lance-linalg = { git = "https://github.com/GlareDB/lance", rev = "de6df70d9c5d95a4818b8799c23e3d1ad649bc1d" }