Fix mechanize vendoring; add RBI defs

[dduugg]

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Relates to #16557

Adds an RBI to replace the hidden definitions for our use of mechanize.

I also noticed that we were keeping older versions of mechanize, so I updated that part of vendor-gems.

[MikeMcQuaid]

Thanks @dduugg!