edencommon fb303 fbthrift fizz folly mvfst proxygen wangle watchman 2024.01.15.00

[timsutton]

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• applies the proxygen patch from this upstream issue to get proxygen build + test working again. See edencommon fb303 fbthrift fizz folly mvfst proxygen wangle watchman 2024.01.08.00 #159369 for discussion in last week's versions.
• updates folly test since Folly now assumes C++17 as a minimum

[lnicco]

Thanks @timsutton for all the help reproducing the issue.
This commit should fix it
facebook/proxygen@343ffcb

Please let us know in case it doesn't

[timsutton]

@p-linnane or @SMillerDev if you have a moment to review 🙏

[p-linnane]

Amazing work @timsutton! Thank you so much for resolving this long standing proxygen issue!

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