feat: dataplane propogate translation failures to controllers

[randmonkey]

What this PR does / why we need it:

• modify k8sobj.Set to store configuration status including succeeded/failed and configured generation
• publish events for translation failures
• update controllers to log and requeue on translation failures

Which issue this PR fixes:

fixes #3172

Special notes for your reviewer:

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• the CHANGELOG.md release notes have been updated to reflect any significant (and particularly user-facing) changes introduced by this PR

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Codecov Report

Base: 74.2% // Head: 74.1% // Decreases project coverage by -0.1% ⚠️

Coverage data is based on head (e7be206) compared to base (faa1cff).
Patch coverage: 80.1% of modified lines in pull request are covered.

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- Misses      2782    2815     +33     
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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
internal/controllers/knative/knative.go	48.0% <42.8%> (-0.6%)	⬇️
...trollers/configuration/zz_generated_controllers.go	35.6% <46.6%> (+0.1%)	⬆️
internal/util/kubernetes/object/set.go	91.1% <90.0%> (-8.9%)	⬇️
internal/dataplane/kong_client.go	84.6% <96.8%> (-0.4%)	⬇️
...ternal/controllers/gateway/httproute_controller.go	56.8% <100.0%> (+0.1%)	⬆️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/tcproute_controller.go	75.7% <100.0%> (+<0.1%)	⬆️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/tlsroute_controller.go	73.3% <100.0%> (+0.1%)	⬆️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/udproute_controller.go	76.4% <100.0%> (+<0.1%)	⬆️
internal/dataplane/parser/translators/ingress.go	92.3% <100.0%> (+0.6%)	⬆️
internal/dataplane/parser/parser.go	89.7% <0.0%> (-2.5%)	⬇️
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[czeslavo]

Some minor nits :)