chore(dep): group update k8s.io to v0.30.0 and controller-runtime to v0.18.2

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What this PR does / why we need it:

• bump client-go to v0.30.0
• bump controller-runtime to v0.18.0

Which issue this PR fixes:

Special notes for your reviewer:

Q: Why bump controller-runtime to v0.18.x in this PR?
A: ref: kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime#2788 If we bump client-go to v0.30.0, it will cause go vet error.

Q: Why change it to Builder-style instead of using the Typed-handler?
A: As Typed Handlers are marked as experimental, I do not want to introduce experimental features into KIC at this time.

PR Readiness Checklist:

Complete these before marking the PR as ready to review:

- [ ] the CHANGELOG.md release notes have been updated to reflect any significant (and particularly user-facing) changes introduced by this PR

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 98.25436% with 7 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 74.0%. Comparing base (062684c) to head (5546d9f).
Report is 6 commits behind head on main.

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Files	Patch %	Lines
internal/controllers/gateway/gateway_controller.go	81.8%	1 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
...ternal/controllers/gateway/grpcroute_controller.go	95.4%	1 Missing ⚠️
...ternal/controllers/gateway/httproute_controller.go	96.0%	1 Missing ⚠️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/tcproute_controller.go	95.4%	1 Missing ⚠️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/tlsroute_controller.go	95.4%	1 Missing ⚠️
...nternal/controllers/gateway/udproute_controller.go	95.4%	1 Missing ⚠️

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