MDEV-28671 post-merge fixes

* use new deprecated printer for all deprecated server options
* restore alphabetic option sorting order
* move deprecated printer from mysqld.cc to my_getopt.c
* in --help print deprecation message at the end of the option help
* move 'ALL' help text where it belongs - to other SET options, and
  with a correct indentation.
* consistently end all or none command-line option help strings
  with a dot - my_print_help() needs that.
  It's about 50/50 now, so let's do none, less line wraps in --help
* remove trailing spaces from command-line option help strings

mysql-test/main/mysqld--help,aix.rdiff

@@ -1,17 +1,15 @@
-diff --git a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
-index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 --- a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
 +++ b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
-@@ -1301,8 +1301,6 @@ The following specify which files/extra groups are read (specified before remain
+@@ -1441,8 +1441,6 @@
   WHERE clause, or a LIMIT clause, or else they will
   aborted. Prevents the common mistake of accidentally
-  deleting or updating every row in a table.
+  deleting or updating every row in a table
 - --stack-trace       Print a symbolic stack trace on failure
 - (Defaults to on; use --skip-stack-trace to disable.)
   --standard-compliant-cte 
   Allow only CTEs compliant to SQL standard
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-standard-compliant-cte to disable.)
-@@ -1367,39 +1365,6 @@ The following specify which files/extra groups are read (specified before remain
+@@ -1511,39 +1509,6 @@
   --thread-cache-size=# 
   How many threads we should keep in a cache for reuse.
   These are freed after 5 minutes of idle time
@@ -28,7 +26,7 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 - pool
 - --thread-pool-oversubscribe=# 
 - How many additional active worker threads in a group are
-- allowed.
+- allowed
 - --thread-pool-prio-kickup-timer=# 
 - The number of milliseconds before a dequeued low-priority
 - statement is moved to the high-priority queue
@@ -37,29 +35,29 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 - start executing earlier than low priority.If priority set
 - to 'auto', the the actual priority(low or high) is
 - determined based on whether or not connection is inside
-- transaction.
+- transaction
 - --thread-pool-size=# 
 - Number of thread groups in the pool. This parameter is
 - roughly equivalent to maximum number of concurrently
 - executing threads (threads in a waiting state do not
-- count as executing).
+- count as executing)
 - --thread-pool-stall-limit=# 
 - Maximum query execution time in milliseconds,before an
 - executing non-yielding thread is considered stalled.If a
 - worker thread is stalled, additional worker thread may be
-- created to handle remaining clients.
+- created to handle remaining clients
   --thread-stack=#    The stack size for each thread
-  --time-format=name  The TIME format (ignored)
-  --tls-version=name  TLS protocol version for secure connections.. Any
-@@ -1788,7 +1753,6 @@ slow-query-log FALSE
+  --tls-version=name  TLS protocol version for secure connections. Any
+  combination of: TLSv1.0, TLSv1.1, TLSv1.2, TLSv1.3, or
+@@ -1965,7 +1930,6 @@
  sort-buffer-size 2097152
  sql-mode STRICT_TRANS_TABLES,ERROR_FOR_DIVISION_BY_ZERO,NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER,NO_ENGINE_SUBSTITUTION
  sql-safe-updates FALSE
 -stack-trace TRUE
  standard-compliant-cte TRUE
  stored-program-cache 256
  strict-password-validation TRUE
-@@ -1807,14 +1771,6 @@ tcp-keepalive-probes 0
+@@ -1985,14 +1949,6 @@
  tcp-keepalive-time 0
  tcp-nodelay TRUE
  thread-cache-size 151
@@ -72,5 +70,5 @@ index 7b0ce27ead3..38176dcaa86 100644
 -thread-pool-priority auto
 -thread-pool-stall-limit 500
  thread-stack 299008
- time-format %H:%i:%s
  tmp-disk-table-size 18446744073709551615
+ tmp-memory-table-size 16777216

mysql-test/main/mysqld--help,win.rdiff

@@ -1,55 +1,55 @@
---- main/mysqld--help.result	2023-11-30 02:21:51.951132200 +0100
-+++ main/mysqld--help,win.reject	2023-11-30 02:35:44.404612300 +0100
-@@ -191,6 +191,7 @@
+--- a/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
++++ b/mysql-test/main/mysqld--help.result
+@@ -220,6 +220,7 @@
   --console           Write error output on screen; don't remove the console
-  window on windows.
+  window on windows
   --core-file         Write core on crashes
 + (Defaults to on; use --skip-core-file to disable.)
   -h, --datadir=name  Path to the database root directory
-  --date-format=name  The DATE format (ignored)
-  --datetime-format=name 
-@@ -696,6 +697,7 @@
+  --deadlock-search-depth-long=# 
+  Long search depth for the two-step deadlock detection
+@@ -722,6 +723,7 @@
   Use MySQL-5.6 (instead of MariaDB-5.3) format for TIME,
-  DATETIME, TIMESTAMP columns.
+  DATETIME, TIMESTAMP columns
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-mysql56-temporal-format to disable.)
 + --named-pipe        Enable the named pipe (NT)
   --net-buffer-length=# 
   Buffer length for TCP/IP and socket communication
   --net-read-timeout=# 
-@@ -1351,6 +1353,10 @@
+@@ -1419,6 +1421,10 @@
   Alias for log_slow_query_file. Log slow queries to given
   log file. Defaults logging to 'hostname'-slow.log. Must
   be enabled to activate other slow log options
 + --slow-start-timeout=# 
 + Maximum number of milliseconds that the service control
 + manager should wait before trying to kill the windows
-+ service during startup(Default: 15000).
++ service during startup(Default: 15000)
   --socket=name       Socket file to use for connection
   --sort-buffer-size=# 
   Each thread that needs to do a sort allocates a buffer of
-@@ -1376,6 +1382,7 @@
-  deleting or updating every row in a table.
+@@ -1443,6 +1449,7 @@
+  deleting or updating every row in a table
   --stack-trace       Print a symbolic stack trace on failure
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-stack-trace to disable.)
-+ --standalone        Dummy option to start as a standalone program (NT).
++ --standalone        Dummy option to start as a standalone program (NT)
   --standard-compliant-cte 
   Allow only CTEs compliant to SQL standard
   (Defaults to on; use --skip-standard-compliant-cte to disable.)
-@@ -1454,6 +1461,11 @@
+@@ -1522,6 +1529,11 @@
   --thread-pool-max-threads=# 
   Maximum allowed number of worker threads in the thread
   pool
 + --thread-pool-min-threads=# 
-+ Minimum number of threads in the thread pool.
++ Minimum number of threads in the thread pool
 + --thread-pool-mode=name 
 + Chose implementation of the threadpool. One of: windows, 
 + generic
   --thread-pool-oversubscribe=# 
   How many additional active worker threads in a group are
-  allowed.
-@@ -1493,8 +1505,8 @@
+  allowed
+@@ -1560,8 +1572,8 @@
   automatically convert it to an on-disk MyISAM or Aria
-  table.
+  table
   -t, --tmpdir=name   Path for temporary files. Several paths may be specified,
 - separated by a colon (:), in this case they are used in a
 - round-robin fashion
@@ -58,23 +58,23 @@
   --transaction-alloc-block-size=# 
   Allocation block size for transactions to be stored in
   binary log
-@@ -1716,6 +1728,7 @@
+@@ -1788,6 +1800,7 @@
  myisam-stats-method NULLS_UNEQUAL
  myisam-use-mmap FALSE
  mysql56-temporal-format TRUE
 +named-pipe FALSE
  net-buffer-length 16384
  net-read-timeout 30
  net-retry-count 10
-@@ -1874,6 +1887,7 @@
+@@ -1962,6 +1975,7 @@
  slave-type-conversions 
  slow-launch-time 2
  slow-query-log FALSE
 +slow-start-timeout 15000
  sort-buffer-size 2097152
  sql-mode STRICT_TRANS_TABLES,ERROR_FOR_DIVISION_BY_ZERO,NO_AUTO_CREATE_USER,NO_ENGINE_SUBSTITUTION
  sql-safe-updates FALSE
-@@ -1901,6 +1915,8 @@
+@@ -1989,6 +2003,8 @@
  thread-pool-exact-stats FALSE
  thread-pool-idle-timeout 60
  thread-pool-max-threads 65536

mysql-test/main/mysqld--help-aria.result

@@ -1,9 +1,12 @@
 flush tables;
+[Warning] --table-cache is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Please use --table-open-cache instead.
 #
 # Check that we don't write any data to wrong or not existing datadir
 #
+[Warning] --table-cache is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Please use --table-open-cache instead.
 [Warning] Could not open mysql.plugin table: "Table 'mysql.plugin' doesn't exist". Some options may be missing from the help text
 #
 # Check with existing directory
 #
+[Warning] --table-cache is deprecated and will be removed in a future release. Please use --table-open-cache instead.
 [Warning] Could not open mysql.plugin table: "Table 'mysql.plugin' doesn't exist". Some options may be missing from the help text