[python] Allow clients to define TLS Server name (SNI)

[tigrato]

This PR allows users to define custom SNI when using the python clients

Fixes #15282

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cc @spacether (2019/11) @krjakbrjak (2023/02)

[wing328]

tests passed via #15420