Fix building on GCC 13 and Linux 6.0+

[gumblex]

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Description

1. GCC 13 breaking changes require <cstdint> header explicitly included.
2. Third-party dependency gloo can't compile on Linux 6.0+, for header changes. This add an upstream patch.

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请根据 PR-CI-Codestyle-Check 提示，安装下 precommit，修一下格式问题，谢谢！

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