fix: only query templates when a user clicks the options menu

[nickoferrall]

Fix #9620

To test

• Load a retro meeting and see that the templates are not queried by default
• Click on the options menu in the Reflect stage and see that the templates are now queried

[nickoferrall]

Hey @mattkrick, could you review this one please?

[mattkrick]

Doesn't seem to work, video included to show how i tested: https://www.loom.com/share/fc18f08c50c441ee88e18f20ff99e154?sid=1bd925dc-3e67-4a14-926c-57391a23c502

[mattkrick]

still fires the query before opening

[nickoferrall]

Thanks @mattkrick. That should be fixed now. Here's a quick Loom demo with the update: https://www.loom.com/share/1d448ddf057e40f29ff5e4e1eb211eef

[mattkrick]

lookin good!