CI,REL: Update the actions

Silence nodejs warnings, maybe build wheels correctly

.github/workflows/build_wheels.yml

@@ -61,12 +61,12 @@ jobs:
       - uses: actions/checkout@v4
       - name: Echo Python version and build platform
         run: echo Building wheel for ${{ matrix.python-version }}-${{ matrix.buildplat[1] }}
-      - uses: actions/setup-python@v4
+      - uses: actions/setup-python@v5
         with:
           python-version: ${{ matrix.python-version }}
       - name: Build wheels
-        uses: pypa/cibuildwheel@v2.15.0
-      - uses: actions/upload-artifact@v3
+        uses: pypa/cibuildwheel@v2.16.5
+      - uses: actions/upload-artifact@v4
         with:
           path: ./wheelhouse/*.whl
 
@@ -86,7 +86,7 @@ jobs:
         shell: bash -l {0}
         run: pipx run build --sdist
 
-      - uses: actions/upload-artifact@v3
+      - uses: actions/upload-artifact@v4
         with:
           path: dist/*.tar.gz
 
@@ -103,7 +103,7 @@ jobs:
     # alternatively, to publish when a GitHub Release is created, use the following rule:
     # if: github.event_name == 'release' && github.event.action == 'published'
     steps:
-      - uses: actions/download-artifact@v3
+      - uses: actions/download-artifact@v4
         with:
           # unpacks default artifact into dist/
           # if `name: artifact` is omitted, the action will create extra parent dir