ARROW-17999: [C++] Make Minio server launch more robust

[pitrou]

• Disable the embedded console
• Retry launching the server several times if unreachable

[pitrou]

Revision: ea9bf60

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ s3-minio-retry-0

Task	Status
test-alpine-linux-cpp
test-build-cpp-fuzz
test-conda-cpp
test-conda-cpp-valgrind
test-debian-10-cpp-amd64
test-debian-10-cpp-i386
test-debian-11-cpp-amd64
test-debian-11-cpp-i386
test-fedora-35-cpp
test-ubuntu-18.04-cpp
test-ubuntu-18.04-cpp-release
test-ubuntu-18.04-cpp-static
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-17
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-bundled
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-thread-sanitizer
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-17999

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = a9d2504 and contender = 3a72dc0. 3a72dc0 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed ⬇️0.56% ⬆️0.0%] test-mac-arm
[Failed ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.39% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] 3a72dc0e ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] 3a72dc0e test-mac-arm
[Failed] 3a72dc0e ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 3a72dc0e ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] a9d2504b ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] a9d2504b test-mac-arm
[Failed] a9d2504b ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] a9d2504b ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java