ARROW-18044: [Java] upgrade error-prone library version to 2.16

[lwhite1]

Upgrades Error prone to eliminate intermittent issues working with IntelliJ IDEA

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-18044

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[lidavidm]

@github-actions crossbow submit java

[lidavidm]

Shouldn't be necessary, but since the upgrade adds new checks, let's make sure they don't behave oddly on different platforms

[github-actions]

Revision: 0ba43ce

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-a2460aecfc

Task	Status
java-jars
verify-rc-source-java-linux-almalinux-8-amd64
verify-rc-source-java-linux-conda-latest-amd64
verify-rc-source-java-linux-ubuntu-18.04-amd64
verify-rc-source-java-linux-ubuntu-20.04-amd64
verify-rc-source-java-linux-ubuntu-22.04-amd64
verify-rc-source-java-macos-amd64

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 0b86e40 and contender = 4bf5c38. 4bf5c38 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] test-mac-arm
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Failed] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] 4bf5c381 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] 4bf5c381 test-mac-arm
[Finished] 4bf5c381 ursa-i9-9960x
[Failed] 4bf5c381 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] 0b86e406 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Failed] 0b86e406 test-mac-arm
[Finished] 0b86e406 ursa-i9-9960x
[Failed] 0b86e406 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java

[ursabot]

['Python', 'R'] benchmarks have high level of regressions.
test-mac-arm
ursa-i9-9960x