ARROW-18317: [Go] Dictionary replacement during IPC stream

[zeroshade]

Fix dictionary replacement for IPC streams. Currently they incorrectly get concatenated together instead of replaced when not using deltas. This will properly replace dictionaries when encountering a non-delta dictionary message.

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-18317

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 058d4f6 and contender = dc7f1ee. dc7f1ee is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished ⬇️0.34% ⬆️0.07%] test-mac-arm
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️1.76% ⬆️0.04%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] dc7f1ee2 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] dc7f1ee2 test-mac-arm
[Finished] dc7f1ee2 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] dc7f1ee2 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] 058d4f69 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] 058d4f69 test-mac-arm
[Finished] 058d4f69 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 058d4f69 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java