GH-35915: [Ruby] Add support for converting function options from Hash automatically

[kou]

Rationale for this change

It's convenient.

What changes are included in this PR?

This also fixes a crash bug with CallExpression.new(name, args, Arrow::MatchSubstringOptions.new). Arrow::MatchSubstringOptions.new is freed multiple times.

Are these changes tested?

Yes.

Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes.

• Closes: [Ruby] Multiple filter conditions in Arrow::Table.load #35915

[github-actions]

⚠️ GitHub issue #35915 has been automatically assigned in GitHub to PR creator.

[kou]

+1

[ursabot]

Benchmark runs are scheduled for baseline = 3b32faa and contender = 766e254. 766e254 is a master commit associated with this PR. Results will be available as each benchmark for each run completes.
Conbench compare runs links:
[Finished ⬇️0.0% ⬆️0.0%] ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished ⬇️1.92% ⬆️0.53%] test-mac-arm
[Finished ⬇️1.31% ⬆️0.0%] ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished ⬇️0.15% ⬆️0.09%] ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Buildkite builds:
[Finished] 766e2544 ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] 766e2544 test-mac-arm
[Finished] 766e2544 ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 766e2544 ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
[Finished] 3b32faaf ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2
[Finished] 3b32faaf test-mac-arm
[Finished] 3b32faaf ursa-i9-9960x
[Finished] 3b32faaf ursa-thinkcentre-m75q
Supported benchmarks:
ec2-t3-xlarge-us-east-2: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R. Runs only benchmarks with cloud = True
test-mac-arm: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Python, R
ursa-i9-9960x: Supported benchmark langs: Python, R, JavaScript
ursa-thinkcentre-m75q: Supported benchmark langs: C++, Java