GH-36969: [C++][R] Bump abseil-cpp version

[assignUser]

Rationale for this change

Our current version of abseil-cpp fails to build with gcc 13 which is used on CRAN machines.

Are these changes tested?

CI

• Closes: [C++][R] abseil fails to build with gcc-13 #36969

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⚠️ GitHub issue #36969 has been automatically assigned in GitHub to PR creator.

[assignUser]

@github-actions crossbow submit -g cpp -g r

[github-actions]

Revision: 8edb066

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-5c039443fa

Task	Status
conda-linux-aarch64-cpu-r41
conda-linux-aarch64-cpu-r42
conda-linux-x64-cpu-r41
conda-linux-x64-cpu-r42
conda-osx-arm64-cpu-r41
conda-osx-arm64-cpu-r42
conda-osx-x64-cpu-r41
conda-osx-x64-cpu-r42
conda-win-x64-cpu-r41
homebrew-r-autobrew
homebrew-r-brew
r-binary-packages
test-alpine-linux-cpp
test-build-cpp-fuzz
test-conda-cpp
test-conda-cpp-valgrind
test-cuda-cpp
test-debian-11-cpp-amd64
test-debian-11-cpp-i386
test-fedora-35-cpp
test-fedora-r-clang-sanitizer
test-r-arrow-backwards-compatibility
test-r-depsource-bundled
test-r-depsource-system
test-r-dev-duckdb
test-r-devdocs
test-r-gcc-11
test-r-gcc-12
test-r-install-local
test-r-install-local-minsizerel
test-r-library-r-base-latest
test-r-linux-as-cran
test-r-linux-rchk
test-r-linux-valgrind
test-r-minimal-build
test-r-offline-maximal
test-r-offline-minimal
test-r-rhub-debian-gcc-devel-lto-latest
test-r-rhub-debian-gcc-release-custom-ccache
test-r-rhub-ubuntu-gcc-release-latest
test-r-rstudio-r-base-4.1-opensuse153
test-r-rstudio-r-base-4.2-centos7-devtoolset-8
test-r-rstudio-r-base-4.2-focal
test-r-ubuntu-22.04
test-r-versions
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-bundled
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-minimal-with-formats
test-ubuntu-20.04-cpp-thread-sanitizer
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp-20
test-ubuntu-r-sanitizer

[h-vetinari]

Just a note that you need to be careful with abseil which C++ standard version you're using, as the ABI is affected by that choice (and you might e.g. run into missing symbols if one part is compiled with C++11 and one with C++17).

[assignUser]

@github-actions crossbow submit r-binary-packages test-fedora-35-cpp

[github-actions]

Revision: 00986bc

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-08314a188d

Task	Status
r-binary-packages
test-fedora-35-cpp

[assignUser]

@github-actions crossbow submit r-binary-packages test-fedora-35-cpp

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Revision: e1de598

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-28e37993e0

Task	Status
r-binary-packages
test-fedora-35-cpp

[h-vetinari]

JFYI, abseil very recently released a new LTS version.

Not sure if you're interested in upgrading this quickly, but presumably that'd mean you'd save half a year until the next abseil bump