[BEAM-3799] Fallback to byte equality in MutaitonDetection

[tgroh]

If two elements are encoded to the same bytes, the system should
consider them equal.

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[robertwb]

Thanks! Could you merge when tests pass and make a cherry-pick against 2.4.0?