Make remsh work with quoted cookie

Allow space and other special characters in cookies.

Test:
  First set the cookie in `vm.args`, then run the script below
  e.g.: `-setcookie 'a b\n\t\xd#{}()[]$&^!-=+?|//c\\d\\\e\\\\f'`
     or `-setcookie "a b\n\t\xd#{}()[]$&^!-=+?|//c\\d\\\e\\\\f"`

  ```
  make release
  cd rel/couchdb
  ./bin/couchdb
  ./bin/remsh
  ```

rel/overlay/bin/remsh

@@ -49,10 +49,14 @@ NODE="${NODE:-$DEFAULT_NODE}"
 
 # If present, extract cookie from ERL_FLAGS
 # This is used by the CouchDB Dockerfile and Helm chart
-COOKIE=$(echo "$ERL_FLAGS" | sed 's/^.*setcookie \([^ ][^ ]*\).*$/\1/g')
+COOKIE=$(echo "$ERL_FLAGS" | sed -r '
+  s/.*-setcookie[ ]*['\''](.*)['\''].*/\1/
+  s/.*-setcookie[ ]*["](.*)["].*/\1/
+  s/.*-setcookie[ ]*([^ ]*).*/\1/
+')
 if test -f "$ARGS_FILE"; then
 # else attempt to extract from vm.args
-  ARGS_FILE_COOKIE=$(awk '$1=="-setcookie"{print $2}' "$ARGS_FILE")
+  ARGS_FILE_COOKIE=$(awk '$1=="-setcookie"{st=index($0," "); print substr($0,st+1)}' "$ARGS_FILE" | tr -d \" | tr -d \')
   COOKIE="${COOKIE:-$ARGS_FILE_COOKIE}"
 fi
 
@@ -111,7 +115,12 @@ fi
 
 # If present, strip -name or -setcookie from ERL_FLAGS
 # to avoid conflicts with the cli parameters
-ERL_FLAGS_CLEAN=$(echo "$ERL_FLAGS" | sed 's/-setcookie \([^ ][^ ]*\)//g' | sed 's/-name \([^ ][^ ]*\)//g')
+ERL_FLAGS_CLEAN=$(echo "$ERL_FLAGS" | sed -r '
+  s/-setcookie[ ]*['\''].*['\'']//
+  s/-setcookie[ ]*["].*["]//
+  s/-setcookie[ ]*[^ ]*//
+  s/-name[ ]*[^ ]*//
+')
 
 if [ -z "${COOKIE}" ]; then
     echo "No Erlang cookie could be found, please specify with -c" >&2
@@ -120,11 +129,11 @@ fi
 
 if [ -z "$TLSCONF" ]; then
   exec env ERL_FLAGS="$ERL_FLAGS_CLEAN" "$BINDIR/erl" -boot "$ROOTDIR/releases/$APP_VSN/start_clean" \
-      -name remsh$$@$LHOST -remsh $NODE -hidden -setcookie $COOKIE \
+      -name remsh$$@$LHOST -remsh $NODE -hidden -setcookie "$COOKIE" \
       "$@"
 else
   exec env ERL_FLAGS="$ERL_FLAGS_CLEAN" "$BINDIR/erl" -boot "$ROOTDIR/releases/$APP_VSN/start_clean" \
-      -name remsh$$@$LHOST -remsh $NODE -hidden -setcookie $COOKIE \
+      -name remsh$$@$LHOST -remsh $NODE -hidden -setcookie "$COOKIE" \
       -proto_dist inet_tls -ssl_dist_optfile $TLSCONF \
       "$@"
 fi