[FLINK-32386][runtime] Introduce ShuffleDescriptorsCache to cache ShuffleDescriptorAndIndex

[huwh]

What is the purpose of the change

refer to https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/FLINK-32386
Introduce ShuffleDescriptorsCache to cache ShuffleDescriptorAndIndex

Brief change log

• Cache initialized in TaskManagerServices
• Cache entry will expire after TTL exceed
• Cache entry will be clear when job disconnected
• Cache entry has limit control

Verifying this change

This change added tests and can be verified as follows:

• Added unit tests to verify TTL/job disconnection/size limit

Does this pull request potentially affect one of the following parts:

• Dependencies (does it add or upgrade a dependency): (no)
• The public API, i.e., is any changed class annotated with @Public(Evolving):(no)
• The serializers: (no)
• The runtime per-record code paths (performance sensitive): (no)
• Anything that affects deployment or recovery: JobManager (and its components), Checkpointing, Kubernetes/Yarn, ZooKeeper: (no)
• The S3 file system connector: (no)

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? (yes)
• If yes, how is the feature documented? (not documented)

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[wanglijie95]

Hi @huwh, let us move to #22861