[FLINK-34727][REST]fix rest request writer future not return

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What is the purpose of the change

"thenAccept()" did not return sendResponse's future, causing the server shutdown process before the request was sent complete.

Brief change log

change AbstractRestHandler respondToRequest return sendRequest inner future

Verifying this change

• Dependencies (does it add or upgrade a dependency): no
• The public API, i.e., is any changed class annotated with @Public(Evolving): no
• The serializers: no
• The runtime per-record code paths (performance sensitive): don't know
• Anything that affects deployment or recovery: JobManager (and its components), Checkpointing, Kubernetes/Yarn, ZooKeeper: no
• The S3 file system connector: no

Documentation

• Does this pull request introduce a new feature? no
• If yes, how is the feature documented? not applicable

[FLINK-34727][REST]fix rest request writer future not return

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• 19349af Azure: SUCCESS

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