fix(java): make slf4j optional (#1494)

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make slf4j optional
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java/pom.xml

@@ -92,6 +92,7 @@
         <groupId>org.slf4j</groupId>
         <artifactId>slf4j-api</artifactId>
         <version>2.0.12</version>
+        <optional>true</optional>
       </dependency>
       <dependency>
         <groupId>com.google.guava</groupId>