optimize: reduce unnecessary dependences in client side

[ggndnn]

Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

There are some unnecessary transitive dependencies of client side artifacts, e.g. rm-datasource, that may lead to dependent artifact conflict in user's environment.

...
<dependency>
    <groupId>com.esotericsoftware</groupId>
    <artifactId>kryo</artifactId>
</dependency>
<dependency>
    <groupId>de.javakaffee</groupId>
    <artifactId>kryo-serializers</artifactId>
</dependency>
...

This PR tried to remove unnecessary transitive dependencies of client side artifacts from pom.xml as much as possible.

Please have a review to check whether these changes are appropriate.

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

[slievrly]

if user use seata-all dependency, it will not contains provided scope dependency in all.pom.

[ggndnn]

It's ok to use seata-all as dependency. But if user use rm-datasource directly, some dependencies are unnecessary, which should be optional.

[codecov-io]

Codecov Report

Merging #1688 into develop will increase coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 39.17%.

@@             Coverage Diff              @@
##             develop   #1688      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      52.78%   52.8%   +0.01%     
- Complexity      2499    2520      +21     
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  Files            485     488       +3     
  Lines          15299   15341      +42     
  Branches        1754    1749       -5     
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+ Hits            8076    8101      +25     
- Misses          6446    6466      +20     
+ Partials         777     774       -3

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
...in/java/io/seata/server/event/EventBusManager.java	66.66% <ø> (ø)	1 <0> (ø)	⬇️
.../io/seata/common/loader/EnhancedServiceLoader.java	61.34% <0%> (-0.52%)	25 <0> (ø)
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/SessionHelper.java	64.86% <0%> (-15.14%)	8 <0> (ø)
...o/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCoordinator.java	54.87% <100%> (+5.06%)	29 <0> (-1)	⬇️
.../java/io/seata/server/transaction/tcc/TccCore.java	100% <100%> (ø)	2 <2> (?)
...ava/io/seata/server/transaction/saga/SagaCore.java	2.7% <2.7%> (ø)	2 <2> (?)
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/BranchSession.java	78.1% <28.57%> (-2.35%)	44 <2> (ø)
...in/java/io/seata/server/transaction/at/ATCore.java	36.36% <36.36%> (ø)	3 <3> (?)
...java/io/seata/server/coordinator/AbstractCore.java	55.95% <55.95%> (ø)	12 <12> (?)
.../java/io/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCore.java	55.27% <68.11%> (+15.69%)	23 <18> (-3)	⬇️
... and 7 more

[xingfudeshi]

LGTM.

[zjinlei]

please resolve conflicts

[ggndnn]

please resolve conflicts
fixed

[zjinlei]

LGTM