bugfix: replace deprecated jvm args

[helloworlde]

Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

1. replace deprecated jvm args

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

[codecov-io]

Codecov Report

Merging #2001 into develop will increase coverage by 0.06%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             develop    #2001      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      55.26%   55.32%   +0.06%     
- Complexity      2429     2433       +4     
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  Files            432      432              
  Lines          14439    14439              
  Branches        1706     1706              
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+ Hits            7979     7988       +9     
+ Misses          5735     5731       -4     
+ Partials         725      720       -5

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
...o/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCoordinator.java	48.41% <0%> (+0.39%)	28% <0%> (+1%)	⬆️
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/GlobalSession.java	85.02% <0%> (+0.48%)	68% <0%> (+1%)	⬆️
...very/registry/zk/ZookeeperRegisterServiceImpl.java	63.7% <0%> (+0.8%)	24% <0%> (ø)	⬇️
...server/store/file/FileTransactionStoreManager.java	58.09% <0%> (+1.58%)	30% <0%> (+1%)	⬆️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/AbstractTableMetaCache.java	88.23% <0%> (+2.94%)	12% <0%> (+1%)	⬆️

[slievrly]

LGTM

[zjinlei]

LGTM