optimize: optimize GC parameters in JVM

[slievrly]

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Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

optimize GC parameters in JVM

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

fixes #4521

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

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Codecov Report

Merging #4522 (f4a4539) into develop (cdb3f50) will decrease coverage by 0.22%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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- Coverage      49.52%   49.29%   -0.23%     
+ Complexity      4076     4069       -7     
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  Files            731      731              
  Lines          25365    25365              
  Branches        3144     3144              
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- Hits           12562    12504      -58     
- Misses         11470    11532      +62     
+ Partials        1333     1329       -4     

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...ava/io/seata/server/metrics/MetricsSubscriber.java	26.58% <0.00%> (-59.50%)	⬇️
...torage/file/store/FileTransactionStoreManager.java	56.77% <0.00%> (-4.20%)	⬇️
...erver/storage/file/session/FileSessionManager.java	49.01% <0.00%> (-3.93%)	⬇️
...o/seata/server/session/AbstractSessionManager.java	58.20% <0.00%> (-2.99%)	⬇️
...in/java/io/seata/server/session/BranchSession.java	79.13% <0.00%> (-1.44%)	⬇️
...io/seata/core/rpc/netty/AbstractNettyRemoting.java	12.98% <0.00%> (-1.30%)	⬇️
...very/registry/zk/ZookeeperRegisterServiceImpl.java	61.02% <0.00%> (-0.74%)	⬇️
...tasource/sql/struct/cache/MysqlTableMetaCache.java	80.00% <0.00%> (+1.11%)	⬆️
...o/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCoordinator.java	57.19% <0.00%> (+1.79%)	⬆️
.../main/java/io/seata/rm/BaseDataSourceResource.java	34.42% <0.00%> (+3.27%)	⬆️
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