optimize: support jmx port in seata

[leizhiyuan]

• I have registered the PR changes.

Ⅰ. Describe what this PR did

Ⅱ. Does this pull request fix one issue?

fixes #5269

Ⅲ. Why don't you add test cases (unit test/integration test)?

Ⅳ. Describe how to verify it

1. export JMX_ENABLE=true
2. run in local machine, check the opts

Ⅴ. Special notes for reviews

[leizhiyuan]

sync #5938 to develop branch

[funky-eyes]

You also need to register the githubid in develop.md

[leizhiyuan]

You also need to register the githubid in develop.md

done

[funky-eyes]

LGTM

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #5939 (d00a889) into develop (971d1de) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
Report is 1 commits behind head on develop.
The diff coverage is n/a.

Additional details and impacted files

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see 6 files with indirect coverage changes

[slievrly]

LGTM