[#545][FOLLOWUP]feat(operator): support specifying custom affinity & tolerations

[crain-cn]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Support specifying coordinator/shuffler server's affinity and tolerations fields for RSS spec.

Why are the changes needed?

1. Production environment deployment needs to use.
2. In order to change parameters flexibly.

This is a followup of #545

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

For RSS cluster admin, they can set custom affinity for shuffle servers and coordinators.

How was this patch tested?

Manually verified.

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #641 (aa08b98) into master (c45c187) will decrease coverage by 0.26%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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...tor/pkg/controller/sync/coordinator/coordinator.go	97.84% <100.00%> (-0.04%)	⬇️
...pkg/controller/sync/shuffleserver/shuffleserver.go	85.56% <100.00%> (-0.22%)	⬇️
...a/org/apache/uniffle/server/RegisterHeartBeat.java	43.85% <0.00%> (-43.86%)	⬇️
.../java/org/apache/uniffle/server/ShuffleServer.java	62.06% <0.00%> (-2.32%)	⬇️
...he/uniffle/server/buffer/ShuffleBufferManager.java	82.74% <0.00%> (-0.36%)	⬇️
.../java/org/apache/uniffle/common/util/RssUtils.java	59.31% <0.00%> (ø)
.../org/apache/uniffle/common/config/ConfigUtils.java	95.55% <0.00%> (ø)
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...ffle/common/exception/InvalidRequestException.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
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[crain-cn]

@advancedxy @jerqi
I closed #638 , do you want to submit this pr?

[advancedxy]

@crain-cn thanks. The code LGTM overall, except one minor comment.

[crain-cn]

@crain-cn thanks. The code LGTM overall, except one minor comment.

Thanks.

[crain-cn]

@crain-cn thanks. The code LGTM overall, except one minor comment.

Thanks. I have finished dealing with the comments. Could the @advancedxy please take a look?

[advancedxy]

Merged this. Thanks @crain-cn