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* Upgrade Netty to 4.1.76.Final and Netty Tcnative to 2.0.51.Final

Fixes apache#14015
- release notes https://netty.io/news/2022/04/12/4-1-76-Final.html
  - contains fix for netty/netty#11695

* Upgrade grpc to 1.45.1 and protobuf to 3.19.2

- grpc < 1.45.1 is not compatible with Netty > 4.1.74.Final
  - grpc/grpc-java#9004

(cherry picked from commit 332a3c7)

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- release notes https://netty.io/news/2022/05/06/2-1-77-Final.html
  - improves Alpine / musl compatibility
    - could help issues such as apache#14534 apache#11415 apache#11224 apache#10798
  - improves shading compatibility
  - fixes a bug related to the native epoll transport and epoll_pwait2

(cherry picked from commit a8045fc)

* upgrade BookKeeper to 4.14.0

* format code

* upgrade bookkeeper to 4.14.1 to fix prometheus metric bug

* update license

Co-authored-by: chenhang <chenhang@bigo.sg>

* Upgraded bookkeeper to 4.13.0; grpc to 1.33

* updated LICENSE

* fixed the rest of the license check

* no idea why license check results on CI are different from local :/

* one more license fix

* Integration tests failed to start container/service there because of java.lang.NoClassDefFoundError: io/perfmark/PerfMark

* another try to get the permark.jar in

* another take on perfmark.jar and integration tests

* add perfmark.jar to LICENSE