[fix][broker] Skip topic.close during unloading if the topic future fails with ownership check, and fix isBundleOwnedByAnyBroker to use ns.checkOwnershipPresentAsync for ExtensibleLoadBalancer (#22379)

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(cherry picked from commit 3eb3b1c)

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