[SPARK-41985][SQL] Centralize more column resolution rules

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

This is a followup of #38888 .

When I search for all the matching of `UnresolvedAttribute`, I found that there are still a few rules doing column resolution:
1. ResolveAggAliasInGroupBy
2. ResolveGroupByAll
3. ResolveOrderByAll
4. ResolveDefaultColumns

This PR merges the first 3 into `ResolvedReferences`. The last one will be done with a separate PR, as it's more complicated.

To avoid making the rule `ResolvedReferences` bigger and bigger, this PR pulls out the resolution code for `Aggregate` to a separated virtual rule (only be used by `ResolvedReferences`). The same to `Sort`. We can refactor and add more virtual rules later.

### Why are the changes needed?

It's problematic to not centralize all the column resolution logic, as the execution order of the rules is not reliable. It actually leads to regression after #38888  : `select a from t where exists (select 1 as a group by a)`. The `group by a` should be resolved as `1 as a`, but now it's resolved as outer reference `a`. This is because `ResolveReferences` runs before `ResolveAggAliasInGroupBy`, and resolves outer references too early.

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

Fixes a bug, but the bug is not released yet.

### How was this patch tested?

new tests

Closes #39508 from cloud-fan/column.

Authored-by: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>
Signed-off-by: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>
(cherry picked from commit 40ca27c)
Signed-off-by: Wenchen Fan <wenchen@databricks.com>

core/src/main/resources/error/error-classes.json

@@ -1521,6 +1521,11 @@
           "Referencing a lateral column alias <lca> in the aggregate function <aggFunc>."
         ]
       },
+      "LATERAL_COLUMN_ALIAS_IN_GROUP_BY" : {
+        "message" : [
+          "Referencing a lateral column alias via GROUP BY alias/ALL is not supported yet."
+        ]
+      },
       "LATERAL_JOIN_USING" : {
         "message" : [
           "JOIN USING with LATERAL correlation."

sql/catalyst/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/sql/catalyst/analysis/CheckAnalysis.scala

@@ -238,7 +238,7 @@ trait CheckAnalysis extends PredicateHelper with LookupCatalog with QueryErrorsB
 
         // Fail if we still have an unresolved all in group by. This needs to run before the
         // general unresolved check below to throw a more tailored error message.
-        ResolveGroupByAll.checkAnalysis(operator)
+        ResolveReferencesInAggregate.checkUnresolvedGroupByAll(operator)
 
         getAllExpressions(operator).foreach(_.foreachUp {
           case a: Attribute if !a.resolved =>
@@ -762,8 +762,8 @@ trait CheckAnalysis extends PredicateHelper with LookupCatalog with QueryErrorsB
 
   private def getAllExpressions(plan: LogicalPlan): Seq[Expression] = {
     plan match {
-      // `groupingExpressions` may rely on `aggregateExpressions`, due to the GROUP BY alias
-      // feature. We should check errors in `aggregateExpressions` first.
+      // We only resolve `groupingExpressions` if `aggregateExpressions` is resolved first (See
+      // `ResolveReferencesInAggregate`). We should check errors in `aggregateExpressions` first.
       case a: Aggregate => a.aggregateExpressions ++ a.groupingExpressions
       case _ => plan.expressions
     }