[SPARK-48332][BUILD][TESTS] Upgrade jdbc related test dependencies

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
The pr aims to upgrade `jdbc` related test dependencies, include:
- com.mysql:mysql-connector-j from `8.3.0` to `8.4.0`
- com.oracle.database.jdbc:ojdbc11 from `23.3.0.23.09` to `23.4.0.24.05`

### Why are the changes needed?
- com.mysql:mysql-connector-j from, release notes:
https://dev.mysql.com/doc/relnotes/connector-j/en/news-8-4-0.html

-  com.oracle.database.jdbc:ojdbc11, release notes:
https://download.oracle.com/otn-pub/otn_software/jdbc/23c/JDBC-UCP-ReleaseNotes-23ai.txt?AuthParam=1716161887_dbf7a096828486d544bee00a2383f42a
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Known Problems Fixed in the Patch Release 23.4.0.24.05
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Bug 36279736 - CONNECTION TO A PROXY USER FAILS WITH INVALID USERNAME/PASSWORD WHEN WALLET IS PROVIDED
Bug 36187019 - LOB PROCESSING FAIL WHEN DB SET WITH EL8ISO8859P7 CHARACTER SET
Bug 36152805 - GET CONNECTION AGAINST NORMAL PDB WITH TFO=ON SHOULD FAIL WITH ORA-18739

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No.

### How was this patch tested?
Pass GA.

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?
No.

Closes #46653 from panbingkun/jdbc_driver_upgrade.

Authored-by: panbingkun <panbingkun@baidu.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>

pom.xml

@@ -323,11 +323,11 @@
       -Dio.netty.tryReflectionSetAccessible=true
     </extraJavaTestArgs>
     <mariadb.java.client.version>2.7.12</mariadb.java.client.version>
-    <mysql.connector.version>8.3.0</mysql.connector.version>
+    <mysql.connector.version>8.4.0</mysql.connector.version>
     <postgresql.version>42.7.3</postgresql.version>
     <db2.jcc.version>11.5.9.0</db2.jcc.version>
     <mssql.jdbc.version>12.6.1.jre11</mssql.jdbc.version>
-    <ojdbc11.version>23.3.0.23.09</ojdbc11.version>
+    <ojdbc11.version>23.4.0.24.05</ojdbc11.version>
   </properties>
   <repositories>
     <repository>