[SPARK-48137][INFRA] Run yarn test only in PR builders and Daily CIs

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

We have been providing a dedicated test environment for `yarn` and `connect` module because they are flaky.
- #45107

However, they are still flaky. So, this PR aims to run `yarn` test only in PR builders (if needed) and Daily CIs (always).
- Reduce the irrelevant re-tries by triggering `YARN CI` only when we need to test `YARN` module.
- Protect YARN CI from `connect` flakiness by providing an independent GitHub Action environment in PR Builders and Daily CIs.
- Lastly, commit builder will offload YARN module tests to the daily CIs

### Why are the changes needed?

- PR builders provide an extensive test coverage with YARN testing.
- Daily CIs with YARN tests
   - NON-ANSI CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_non_ansi.yml (1AM)
   - Java 21 SBT CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_java21.yml (4AM)
   - RockDB UI CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_rockdb_as_ui_backend.yml (6AM)
   - Maven Java 17 CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_maven.yml (1PM)
   - Maven Java 21 CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_maven_java21.yml (2PM)
   - Maven Java 21 on AppleSilicon CI: https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/workflows/build_maven_java21_macos14.yml (8PM every two days)

- YARN CI has been flaky in GitHub Action environment and requires irrelevant re-tries very frequently.
    - https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/runs/8962451417/job/24611353908 (2024-05-05)
    - https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/runs/8962440192/job/24611326971 (2024-05-05)

```
[info] *** 6 TESTS FAILED ***
[error] Failed tests:
[error] 	org.apache.spark.deploy.yarn.YarnClusterSuite
[error] (yarn / Test / test) sbt.TestsFailedException: Tests unsuccessful
```

  <img width="544" alt="Screenshot 2024-05-05 at 20 12 28" src="https://github.com/apache/spark/assets/9700541/cbf9fb03-fc4c-4513-b5e5-158c3c9a085a">

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

No.

### How was this patch tested?

Manual review.

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No.

Closes #46395 from dongjoon-hyun/SPARK-48137.

Authored-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dhyun@apple.com>

.github/workflows/build_and_test.yml

@@ -80,12 +80,14 @@ jobs:
           pyspark=`./dev/is-changed.py -m $pyspark_modules`
           if [[ "${{ github.repository }}" != 'apache/spark' ]]; then
             pandas=$pyspark
+            yarn=`./dev/is-changed.py -m yarn`
             kubernetes=`./dev/is-changed.py -m kubernetes`
             sparkr=`./dev/is-changed.py -m sparkr`
             buf=true
             ui=true
           else
             pandas=false
+            yarn=false
             kubernetes=false
             sparkr=false
             buf=false
@@ -102,6 +104,7 @@ jobs:
               \"tpcds-1g\": \"false\",
               \"docker-integration-tests\": \"false\",
               \"lint\" : \"true\",
+              \"yarn\" : \"$yarn\",
               \"k8s-integration-tests\" : \"$kubernetes\",
               \"buf\" : \"$buf\",
               \"ui\" : \"$ui\",
@@ -155,8 +158,8 @@ jobs:
           - >-
             streaming, sql-kafka-0-10, streaming-kafka-0-10, streaming-kinesis-asl,
             kubernetes, hadoop-cloud, spark-ganglia-lgpl, protobuf
-          - >-
-            yarn, connect
+          - yarn
+          - connect
         # Here, we split Hive and SQL tests into some of slow ones and the rest of them.
         included-tags: [""]
         excluded-tags: [""]
@@ -194,6 +197,11 @@ jobs:
             hive: hive2.3
             excluded-tags: org.apache.spark.tags.ExtendedSQLTest,org.apache.spark.tags.SlowSQLTest
             comment: "- other tests"
+        exclude:
+          # Always run if yarn == 'true', even infra-image is skip (such as non-master job)
+          # In practice, the build will run in individual PR, but not against the individual commit
+          # in Apache Spark repository.
+          - modules: ${{ fromJson(needs.precondition.outputs.required).yarn != 'true' && 'yarn' }}
     env:
       MODULES_TO_TEST: ${{ matrix.modules }}
       EXCLUDED_TAGS: ${{ matrix.excluded-tags }}

.github/workflows/build_java21.yml

@@ -47,6 +47,7 @@ jobs:
           "sparkr": "true",
           "tpcds-1g": "true",
           "docker-integration-tests": "true",
+          "yarn": "true",
           "k8s-integration-tests": "true",
           "buf": "true",
           "ui": "true"

.github/workflows/build_non_ansi.yml

@@ -44,5 +44,6 @@ jobs:
           "pyspark": "true",
           "sparkr": "true",
           "tpcds-1g": "true",
-          "docker-integration-tests": "true"
+          "docker-integration-tests": "true",
+          "yarn": "true"
         }

.github/workflows/build_rockdb_as_ui_backend.yml

@@ -42,5 +42,6 @@ jobs:
         {
           "build": "true",
           "pyspark": "true",
-          "sparkr": "true"
+          "sparkr": "true",
+          "yarn": "true"
         }