plumbing: resolve non-external delta references

[rohankmr414]

In a self-contained pack file delta references might point to base objects stored later in the file.
In this case we need to replace placeholders for external refs with the actual base object and update the children references.

Fixes: argoproj/argo-workflows#10225

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