Add Systemd config for self-hosted server

[svenstaro]

Fixes #1864.

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[ellie]

The env makes sense, but it might be better to just use the config file. We autocreate with the defaults which hopefully leads to less people asking for help with things

Setting ATUIN_CONFIG_DIR=/etc/atuin and ensuring that directory is created would make that work

[svenstaro]

I reworked this following the suggestions in #1864. I think this is probably good to go.

[ellie]

Just to clarify here too, please make it very clear in the unit file that this is for running atuin server, and not anything client related

[svenstaro]

@ellie Friendly ping (for this and atuinsh/docs#45) :) Are you cool with this now?

[ellie]

Both look good now, thank you!

[ellie]

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