vo: Fix race condition causing redraw requests to be ignored

This manifested most frequently as a bug where the OSD fails to update
after pausing or single-stepping forwards (issues mpv-player#8172, mpv-player#8350).

In `render_frame`, the vo thread takes the lock once before rendering
the frame, and once after. The lock is relinquished whilst the frame is
actually rendering.

The redraw_request flag was being cleared whilst holding the lock
*after* the video frame has been rendered; however this frame was
rendered according to the request fetched whilst holding the lock the
first time. If the OSD was updated during the rendering of this frame,
the redraw request is cleared once the frame finishes rendering even
though the updated OSD is not included in the rendered frame.

video/out/vo.c

@@ -944,6 +944,7 @@ static bool render_frame(struct vo *vo)
     } else {
         in->rendering = true;
         in->hasframe_rendered = true;
+        in->request_redraw = false;
         int64_t prev_drop_count = vo->in->drop_count;
         // Can the core queue new video now? Non-display-sync uses a separate
         // timer instead, but possibly benefits from preparing a frame early.
@@ -997,8 +998,6 @@ static bool render_frame(struct vo *vo)
 
     if (in->dropped_frame) {
         MP_STATS(vo, "drop-vo");
-    } else {
-        in->request_redraw = false;
     }
 
     if (in->current_frame && in->current_frame->num_vsyncs &&