Name conflict dodges

[parsonsmatt]

This PR adds isNothing_, groupBy_, and updateE as "non-conflicting" variants of the other esqueleto functions. This helps avoid name conflicts and makes it easier to import esqueleto with other libraries.

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[parsonsmatt]

To me, the main question is: do we want to deprecate the other function names at some point and only have these _ suffixes?