Fix 5309 alter table add column if not exists

[griffio]

fixes #5309

Support IF NOT EXISTS in ALTER TABLE ADD COLUMN ...

Added override rule for alter_table_add_column as redeclared for extra clause
Added custom mixin to prevent duplicate property field in data class when using IF NOT EXISTS and column exists already

CREATE TABLE T (
  id INTEGER,
  txt VARCHAR[]
);

ALTER TABLE T ADD COLUMN IF NOT EXISTS txt VARCHAR[] DEFAULT '{}';

Added migration integration test