Feature: building postgres backend into shared library

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Building postgres backend into shared library allows multiple postmaster processes to share postgres.so, thereby reducing the memory overhead of a single machine with multiple segments. We have added a --enable-shared-postgres-backend compilation parameter to compile and generate postgres.so. We only test it locally, please use it with caution.

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