fix(deps): Update grpc-java monorepo to v1.65.0 (#242)

This PR contains the following updates:

| Package | Type | Update | Change |
|---|---|---|---|
| [io.grpc:grpc-inprocess](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java) | dependencies | minor | `1.64.0` -> `1.65.0` |
| [io.grpc:grpc-testing](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java) | dependencies | minor | `1.64.0` -> `1.65.0` |
| [io.grpc:grpc-services](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java) | dependencies | minor | `1.64.0` -> `1.65.0` |
| [io.grpc:grpc-stub](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java) | dependencies | minor | `1.64.0` -> `1.65.0` |
| [io.grpc:grpc-protobuf](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java) | dependencies | minor | `1.64.0` -> `1.65.0` |

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### Release Notes

<details>
<summary>grpc/grpc-java (io.grpc:grpc-inprocess)</summary>

### [`v1.65.0`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/releases/tag/v1.65.0)

grpc-netty in this release is compatible with Netty 4.1.111; it fixes the incompatibility that caused data corruption. grpc-netty-shaded is still using Netty 4.1.100.

##### New Features

-   New module grpc-gcp-csm-observability ([`df8cfe9`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/df8cfe9dd))

##### Improvements

-   api: Add `ClientStreamTracer.inboundHeaders(Metadata)` ([`960012d`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/960012d76)). This is the same as the existing `inboundHeaders()`, but is provided the Metadata
-   api: Fix various typos in the documentation ([#&#8203;11144](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11144)) ([`6ec744f`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/6ec744f2a))
-   core: When queuing RPCs, don’t request picks from the LB twice ([`8844cf7`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/8844cf7b8)). This could be viewed as a small performance optimization, but mainly reduces the amount of race-handling code
-   util: Improve AdvancedTlsX509KeyManager’s documentation, verification, and testing. ([#&#8203;11139](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11139)) ([`781b4c4`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/781b4c457)) This change shows `@ExperimentalApi` being removed, but it was re-added in [`3c97245`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/3c97245) before the release
-   examples: Fix broken command in reflection readme ([#&#8203;11131](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11131)) ([`c31dbf4`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/c31dbf48a))
-   binder: Add a connection timeout ([#&#8203;11255](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11255)) ([`791f894`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/791f894e2))

##### Bug fixes

-   core: Exit idle mode when delayed transport is in use ([`fea577c`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/fea577c80)). This was a long-standing race that could cause RPCs to hang, but was very unlikely to be hit. Avoiding the double-picking ([`8844cf7`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/8844cf7b8)) made the race more visible
-   netty: Fix Netty composite buffer merging to be compatible with Netty 4.1.111 ([#&#8203;11294](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11294)) ([`0fea7dd`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/0fea7dd)). The previous behavior easily caused data corruption
-   okhttp: Workaround SSLSocket not noticing socket is closed ([`a28357e`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/a28357e19)). Previously, shutting down when a new connection was being established could result in the server never becoming terminated
-   inprocess: Fix listener race if transport is shutdown while starting ([`e4e7f3a`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/e4e7f3a06)). This issue was unlikely to be hit outside of specialized tests
-   services: restore //services:binarylog bazel target ([#&#8203;11292](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11292)) ([`d57f271`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/d57f271)). This fixes a regression introduced in 1.62.2
-   binder: Wait for all server transports to terminate before returning the security policy executor to the object pool ([#&#8203;11240](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11240)) ([`34ee600`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/34ee600dc))
-   binder: Reject further SETUP_TRANSPORT requests post-BinderServer shutdown ([#&#8203;11260](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11260)) ([`1670e97`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/1670e97f7))
-   bazel: Include missing com_google_protobuf_javalite in MODULE.bazel ([#&#8203;11147](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/issues/11147)) ([`f995c12`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/commit/f995c121e))

##### Thanks to

[@&#8203;hakusai22](https://togithub.com/hakusai22)
[@&#8203;firov](https://togithub.com/firov)
[@&#8203;mateusazis](https://togithub.com/mateusazis)
[@&#8203;Mir3605](https://togithub.com/Mir3605)
[@&#8203;niloc132](https://togithub.com/niloc132)

### [`v1.64.1`](https://togithub.com/grpc/grpc-java/releases/tag/v1.64.1)

##### What's Changed

-   netty:Fix Netty composite buffer merging to be compatible with Netty 4.1.111 (1.64.x backport) by [@&#8203;larry-safran](https://togithub.com/larry-safran) in [grpc/grpc-java#11303

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lib/build.gradle

@@ -34,9 +34,9 @@ dependencies {
     implementation 'com.google.guava:guava:33.2.1-jre'
     implementation 'info.picocli:picocli:4.7.6'
     implementation 'com.google.guava:guava:33.2.1-jre'
-    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-protobuf:1.64.0'
-    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-stub:1.64.0'
-    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-services:1.64.0'
+    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-protobuf:1.65.0'
+    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-stub:1.65.0'
+    implementation 'io.grpc:grpc-services:1.65.0'
     implementation 'io.cloudquery:plugin-pb-java:0.0.18'
     implementation 'org.apache.arrow:arrow-memory-core:15.0.2'
     implementation 'org.apache.arrow:arrow-vector:15.0.2'
@@ -48,8 +48,8 @@ dependencies {
     implementation 'org.apache.logging.log4j:log4j-api:2.23.1'
     implementation 'org.apache.logging.log4j:log4j-core:2.23.1'
 
-    testImplementation 'io.grpc:grpc-testing:1.64.0'
-    testImplementation 'io.grpc:grpc-inprocess:1.64.0'
+    testImplementation 'io.grpc:grpc-testing:1.65.0'
+    testImplementation 'io.grpc:grpc-inprocess:1.65.0'
     testImplementation platform('org.junit:junit-bom:5.10.3')
     testImplementation 'org.junit.jupiter:junit-jupiter:5.10.3'
     testImplementation 'org.junit.jupiter:junit-jupiter-api:5.10.3'