server: improve store initialization logging

[erikgrinaker]

Store initialization can be slow, sometimes taking as long as a minute. We should provide progress information by logging progress (in terms of replicas initialized and the total count) e.g. every 10 seconds, and also include the duration in the "initialized store sX" log message.

Jira issue: CRDB-34192

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