REF: Use rasterio.io.MemoryFile in merge

[snowman2]

Related: #204 (comment)

Failing tests: https://github.com/corteva/rioxarray/actions/runs/8126712662/job/22210778353

FAILED test/integration/test_integration_merge.py::test_merge_arrays[True] - AssertionError: 
Arrays are not almost equal to 7 decimals
 ACTUAL: <xarray.DataArray '__xarray_dataarray_variable__' ()> Size: 8B
array(-854871110)
Coordinates:...
 DESIRED: 22865733
FAILED test/integration/test_integration_merge.py::test_merge_arrays[False] - AssertionError: 
Arrays are not almost equal to 7 decimals
 ACTUAL: <xarray.DataArray '__xarray_dataarray_variable__' ()> Size: 8B
array(-854871110)
Coordinates:
    spatial_ref  int64 8B 0
 DESIRED: 22865733
FAILED test/integration/test_integration_merge.py::test_merge__different_crs[True] - AssertionError: 
Arrays are not almost equal to 7 decimals
 ACTUAL: <xarray.DataArray '__xarray_dataarray_variable__' ()> Size: 8B
array(-231858673)
Coordinates:
    spatial_ref  int64 8B 0
 DESIRED: -131734881
FAILED test/integration/test_integration_merge.py::test_merge__different_crs[False] - AssertionError: 
Arrays are not almost equal to 7 decimals
 ACTUAL: <xarray.DataArray '__xarray_dataarray_variable__' ()> Size: 8B
array(-231858673)
Coordinates:
    spatial_ref  int64 8B 0
 DESIRED: -131734881
FAILED test/integration/test_integration_merge.py::test_merge_arrays__res - AssertionError: 
Arrays are not almost equal to 7 decimals
 ACTUAL: 3132355.0
 DESIRED: 13760565

[snowman2]

Thanks @justingruca 👍