add with-suggested-libs and with-suggested-exts

[crazywhalecc]

What does this PR do?

Fix #243

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• If it's a extension or dependency update, make sure adding related extensions in src/global/test-extensions.php.
• If you changed the behavior of static-php-cli, add docs in static-php/static-php-cli-docs .
• If you updated config/xxxx.json content, run bin/spc dev:sort-config xxx.