tool_getparam: bsearch cmdline options

- the option names are now alpha sorted and lookup is a lot faster

- use case sensitive matching. It was previously case insensitive, but that
  was not documented nor tested.

- remove "partial match" feature. It was not documented, not tested and
  was always fragile as existing use could break when we add a new
  option

- lookup short options via a table

Closes #12631