chore: refactor the hook

[BohuTANG]

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Summary

• add enable_refresh_aggregating_index_after_write setting
• add HookOperator to make the hook execute more simple:

let hook_operator = HookOperator::create(...);
hook_operator.execute().await; -- execute compact and refresh hook
hook_operator.execute_compact().await; 
hook_operator.execute_refresh().await; 

Fixes #[Link the issue here]

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - Only refactor, origin tests covered

Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
• Other (please describe):

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