chore: add a setting for inlist to join

[xudong963]

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Summary

for now, the inlist needs to over 1024, so we can change it into join, we add a setting in this pr for user to adjust it.

Tests

• Unit Test
• Logic Test
• Benchmark Test
• No Test - Explain why

Type of change

• Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New Feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking Change (fix or feature that could cause existing functionality not to work as expected)
• Documentation Update
• Refactoring
• Performance Improvement
• Other (please describe):

[JackTan25]

if we can add a test for this, it will be better. But it doesn't matter.