Add attention mask for chemberta

[arunppsg]

Fix #3597

Summary of changes:

• pass attention mask for mlm
• added more user arguments for grover model

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[arunppsg]

Note: The failure in code-formatting ci is not related to changes in this pull request.

[rbharath]

@arunppsg Can you rebase? We just fixed jax CI so we shoudl see a lot more tests passing. I will do final review after

[arunppsg]

@rbharath rebased it

[rbharath]

LGTM